... there you go again ...

... for us saying sorry is the most difficult part and we merely gather courage to speak our heart out to apologize even for the seen pain one have imparted ... its a great gesture showing your inner beauty ... that rarely been exposed yet ...

... yes it is true that we forget and leave behind the past which never come along with us to present and have no influence to our future ... we do care less and most often gracefully shutdown our senses towards it ...

... but I still believe leaving behind our past is the best practice we human do, or intend to do not only because you had been hurt then, but you have hurt others as well ...

... certainly life is all about moving on ... and I am happy to see everyone going along ... yes we all are stepping ahead and crossing milestone one after another ... remember that it is not your deeds but the follow up reactions hurt the most and last the longest ...

Samaya Lai Farkera Herda

Wasn't a long time back, I knew what I wanted with time, when I needed the time, and where I had the time. Thought I had it in control and felt I could bend it as I wished and when I wished. Aajhai ni yaad cha malai - still remember THAT it was me trying to convince them to be consistent and positive on what you think and do right for what you aim.

Now I find myself not in position ... to let others tell the same. Is it cause I am lost? or just not able to put myself in the trial? or ...

STROKE: Remember The 1st Three Letters.... STR

I got this thru mail and thought worth posting it because awareness is prevention.

My friend sent this and encouraged me to post it and spread the word. I agree. If everyone can remember something this simple, we could save some folks.

STROKE IDENTIFICATION:
During a BBQ, a friend stumbled and took a little fall - she assured everyone that she was fine (they offered to call paramedics) .....she said she had just tripped over a brick because of her new shoes.

They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of food. While she appeared a bit shaken up, Ingrid went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening.

Her husband called later telling everyone that his wife had been taken to the hospital - (at 6:00 pm Ingrid passed away.) She had suffered a stroke at the BBQ. Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps she would be with us today. Some don't die.... they end up in a helpless, hopeless condition instead. It only takes a minute to read this...

A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke... totally. He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed, and then getting the patient medically cared for within 3 hours, which is tough.

RECOGNIZING A STROKE - Thank God for the sense to remember the '3' steps, STR . Read and Learn!

Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster. The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke. Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:

S *Ask the individual to SMILE.

T *Ask the person to TALK and SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently) (i.e.
It is sunny out today)

R *Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS. If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of
these tasks, call for help immediately and describe the symptoms to the attendants/doctors.

New Sign of a Stroke -------Stick out Your Tongue;
NOTE:
Ask the person to 'stick' out his tongue.. If the tongue is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the other, that is also an indication of a stroke.
Hence spread the words, save life.

Unspoken

Unspoken words, yet conveyed clearly, left me realize, what I lost

"

There are words meant just for you,
But it's not proper to say that I feel what I do.

If I tell you what's inside, rules are broken,
But I've to tell before I hurt with words unspoken.

I have to say for whatever its worth,
But I've been holding back for fear of being hurt.

I don't know how or even when it begun,
But I want you to know, my love is where you stand.

I never thought I'd fall for you,
coz I'm not sure you'd feel it too.

So if you love me, tell me now and tell me true,
So i can tell you, "I Love You too..."

Although we differ much from each other,
This I will not let hinder.

The fact that all say "Love Conquers All"
and this I believe is true.

I will not let it stop from expressing my emotions,
For I know it's not mere infatuation.

I've love you, my friend and I still will,
Even if you go away, I'll be loving you still.

I wanna tell you how very much I Love You
Although I have NO audacity to.
"

why not .... start now

... happen to go to Chaunni with Anupam today. Poor guy, broke the joint of his left hand (he is lefty) and could not recover yet after a month of Physio. Pitied a bit at his situation, thinking how helpless he is without his working hand supporting him. Mere thought of being in his place brought Goose-bumps all over my body, and compelled to ask myself - How fortunate we are not to face such disabilities, considering the fact that more than 10% of the World Population are among them?

This morning in office someone asked me - why are you so happy? Well, this is not the first time I was shooted with this. Most of the time I tell them that I am always happy and seldom I just smile at them. Today I asked myself, why am I happy? Do I really have any reason to be happy? then thought -

Do we really need so called "REASON" to be happy?

I woke up this morning in single piece with all my limbs and peripherals well attached and functioning, is not that good enough reason to be happy? I could see and talk to my beloved ones today, is not that good enough reason to be happy? I took off from home and reached office safe and sound, is not that good enough reason to be happy? Looking down on those who have suffered all their life either being disabled since birth or after, or those who wakes up to find themselve unable to do even a basic daily activities, or those who have no one to look upon as beloved, should not we be atleast spreading few glimpses of smile as a virtue of gratitude that you did not have to go through these miseries.

It is true that I like smiling and it makes me happy to see others smiling as well. Life has been defined as a Struggle - a never ending struggle to be precise, then why do feel sad just to face one. Depressed you are more complex you become. If taking deep breadth and loosing some heat makes you feel better then why not do so? We easily welcome sadness in our life but hesitate to embrace happiness coming our way.

A "smile" in your face cost no money, a "hi" from your lips cost no juice, a "friendly pat" on someones shoulder cost no strength. If so, why are we so stingy to do which cost nothing, rather would gain happiness for yourself and for others in return. Being happy, amplifying and broadcasting is so effortlessly simple yet we are either unaware or not in practice to imply. So friends, why not begin your day with smile? why not spread the happiness implicitly adhere to you? why not apply "Jadu ki Jhapki" (Munna bhai kinda) to the needed?